Solo Water Vacations | What Gets You Wet?

Recently, I’ve been thinking about all of the solo water vacations I have enjoyed over the years. Water, more than any other thing in life, calms me down.  Staring at hit.  Walking beside it. Swimming in it.  Cruising on it.  Bathing in it.  Hell,  even washing dishes by hand slows my pulse and allows me to breathe easier.  Do you feel the same way?  What type of water activities do you prefer?  


What gets YOU wet?



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Labeled: Travel
Pre-Travel Packing/Safety Tips

If there is one thing I have learned after 20+ years of solo travel, it’s how to pack more efficiently and take precautions when it comes to my travel documents, valuables and personal identity.  My “Pre-Travel Packing/Safety Tips” are listed below.  Of course, solo travelers are not the only ones who can benefit from these practices. Therefore, I recommend you share them with any family or friends with whom you may be travelling.  


  1.  Share your flight, hotel and travel itinerary with one or 2 family members or close friends.  Include hotel(s) phone numbers and e-mail addresses.

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Labeled: Tips, Etc. · Travel
7 Reasons to Visit Chicago Athletic Association

Chicago Athletic Association was restored last year into a wonderful hotel, dining destination and playground for the city’s visitors and residents alike.  This turn-of-the-century building from the 1890’s is an architectural treasure with a vast and wild history.  

The facade and interior are finished in a Venetian Gothic style.  The halls and walls echo the rich history of the many movers, shakers, musicians and other colorful characters who put Chicago on the map.  The bold, the bawdy and the bad-asses.


Chicago Athletic Association Stagg Court

The woodwork in this historic Stagg Court is stunning!

Chicago Athletic Association elevators

The elevator walls are made from the re-purposed wood of the tennis courts here.

Chicago Athletic Association swimming pool

The historic swimming pool lies underneath this party room.


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How Did You Get Your Groove On During 2015?

Happy New Year, everyone!  I hope you all had a fabulous holiday season and are excited about all the good things 2016 has to offer.  I know I am!  Before I wander too far down the new year’s path, I wonder…How did you get your groove on during 2015?  Personally, I experienced several musical highlights last year at Buddy Guy’s Legends, The Chicago Theatre, City Winery and beyond.  What’s more?  I attended all of those shows solo!

Live concerts are part of my “holy trinity.”  (Travel and food make up the other two-thirds).  I love many genres of music but blues and rock are what really get my blood pumping.  

I started off 2015 with a live show by my absolute favorite musical artist of all time, Beth Hart. Beth and her kick-ass band performed at Park West in Chicago’s Lincoln Park neighborhood.  I have seen her perfom several times including in Dublin, Ireland and New York.  It was a treat to sit right up front, near the stage again, during this performance.  Definitely, the highlight of 2015 for me.


Beth Hart live at Park West

Beth Hart, my favorite voice of all time!

Beth Hart at Park West


As expected, I met several avid Beth Hart fans while standing in line in the snow , waiting for the doors at Park West to open.  We exchanged personal stories of other Beth Hart shows we attended in the U.S. and abroad, as well as our experiences meeting Beth, her husband, Scott and the other members of her band.  Of course, we discussed our favorite songs, too!


Beth Hart Band

Pj Barth of Beth Hart Band

Pj Barth is one of Beth Hart’s stellar guitarists


In April, I headed over to The Chicago Theatre to catch Joe Bonamassa.  Joe is a stellar blues artist who has recorded albums with Beth Hart such as “Don’t Explain,” “See Saw” and “Live in Amsterdam.”  Joe has been building an impressive blues career, since he was a young boy.


Joe Bonamassa at Chicago Theatre

Joe Bonamassa, blues artist


I chatted with some other Joe Bonamassa fans in the historic and gorgeous lobby of the Chicago Theatre over cocktails.

In May, I returned to Tthe Chicago Theatre to see the legendary Jeff Beck on blues guitar.  He came onto a nearly bare-bones stage, without any flashy merchandising.  Just his bandmates. He absolutely killed it that night.  In addition to his own stellar songs, Jeff treated the audience to incredibly touching renditions of “Danny Boy” and “The Thrill is Gone.”  

When you have an opportunity to see a living guitar legend (age 70), you take it.  Even if you have to go solo.  


Jeff Beck at The Chicago Theatre


I am a huge fan of Buddy Guy.  Lucky for me, I live just 5 blocks from his Chicago club, Buddy Guy’s Legends.  I have been honored to see Buddy perform live and to meet him several times. He is in residence every January for the entire month.  During that time, he plays with different musicians every weekend.  This year, I also attended Buddy’s 79th Birthday Bash.  


Buddy Guy in Chicago

Buddy Guy's birthday


Buddy, his family and friends were there mingling with the rest of us.  He got up on stage later in the evening to sing.  Then, we all sang “Happy Birthday” to Buddy before we shared slices of his birthday cake and imbibed on some Buddy Brew beer:)  I had fun chatting with Buddy and his many other fans.  Top night!


Buddy Guy's 79th Birthday Bash

Buddy accepts some birthday gifts!

Buddy Guy's 79th birthday

The lucky raffle winner of Buddy Guy’s guitar….was not me :(

Legends in Chicago

Birthday cake and “Buddy Brew” beer


James Bay, an up and coming British musician, was at Buddy’s party.  He performed a song that night as well.  


James Bay at Buddy Guy's

James Bay at Buddy Guy's Legends

James Bay, British guitaritst/singer


Here are some other musical highlights which helped my get my groove on in 2015, despite the fact that I attended these shows solo:

Chicago Blues Fest in Grant Park:

Shemekia Copeland at Chicago Blues Festival

Shemekia Copeland and her band came in from NYC.

Willie Dixon's family at Chicago Blues Festival

Willie Dixon’s family celebrates his 100th birthday at Chicago Blues Festival


Dana Fuchs, Doyle Bramhall II and Jimmy Vaughan gave great perfomances at City Winery Chicago:


Dana Fuchs City Winery in Chicago 2015

Some of you may remember Dana Fuchs from the movie, “Across the Universe”

Dana Fuchs at City Winery Chicago

Dana Fuchs in Chicago

My other favorite contemporary goddess of blues, Dana Fuchs!

Dana Fuchs Band

Doyle Bramhall II at City Winery Chicago

Doyle Bramhall II

Doyle Bramhall II at City Winery in Chicago

Jimmy Vaughan at City Winery 2015

Jimmyn Vaughan

JImmy Vaughan at City Winery Chicago


Walter Trout made an appearance at Buddy Guy’s Legends:


Walter Trout at Buddy Guy's Legends

Walter Trout


Grace Potter kept us all on our feet at The Chicago Theatre:


Grace Potter at The Chicago Theatre 2015

Grace Potter


Devon Allman brought some rock ‘n soul to Cubby Bear in Wrigleyville:


Devon Allman at Cubby Bear in Chicago

Devon Allman


Last but not least, I rang in the new year with Robert Randolph & The Family Band at City Winery in Chicago.  I was invited to dance on stage with some other fun women. Of course, I accepted!  After the show, I was able to hang with Robert and the band for a bit.  Groovy cool way to say goodbye to 2015 and hello to 2016!


Robert Randolph & The Family Band at City Winery on New Year's Eve

I rang in the New Year with Robert Randolph & The Family Band


Robert Randolp & The Family Band

Robert Randolp & The Family Band in Chicago 2015

Robert Randolph & The Family Band in Chicago

Great hang backstage with Robert Randolph & The Family Band


So, there you have it.  As much as I love to attend live shows with friends, they are not always available or interested in the bands I want to see.  The thought of missing my favorite musical acts simply because I would have to go solo is unacceptable.  

For those of you who feel self-conscious about attending a concert solo, I urge you to get over it.  Remember, you already have something in common with the other folks who are in attendance.  You both love the same singer/band and are excited for the show.


Labeled: Culture & Community · Miscellaneous
MingHin Cuisine – Dining Solo in Chicago’s Chinatown


Are you afraid of visiting Chinatown?  I meet many folks from different cities who say that Chinatown is scary or intimidating.  But, why?  Perhaps it’s that most Chinatown neighborhoods have so many restaurants and shops in very close proximity to each other.  Or, maybe, the fact that there are so many signs in Chinese, Korean or other Asian languages is off-putting.  Some folks fear crime (I think they watch too many bad movies!).   Whatever the reason, one thing I hear all the time from people is that they would never consider going to Chinatown solo.

Me?  I love the fact that I live so close to Chicago’s Chinatown neighborhood.  It’s such an interesting and fun place to meander around, while exploring various types Asian cuisine and culture without a passport.  Last Friday, I headed over to MingHin Cuisine for a lovely solo lunch.


Minghin in Chicago

Chinatown Square in Chicago


MingHin is located just a couple of blocks west of the Cermak-Chinatown ‘L’ stop, along the CTA Red Line and the McCormick Place ‘L’ stop, along the CTA Green Line.  The #62 Archer bus will take you directly there as well.


Cermak-Chinatown stop near Minghin

CTA stop near Chinatown

MingHin is easily accessible via the cta trains and buses.


The focus here is on Cantonese cuisine and they have a fabulous dim sum service.  Since I was dining alone, I decided to leave the many dim sum options for a return visit with a few friends. That way, I can justify ordering several items at once :)  


Minghin's dim sum

Here’s how my lunch went down:

I arrived at 1pm and MingHin was packed.  I was greeted immediately with a smile and asked how many people were in my party.  When I mentioned that I was a party of one and that I would like to sit by a window, the host did not balk at all.  He swiftly eyeballed the available table options in this rather large space and escorted me to a large window booth.  

I really appreciate it when a restaurant welcomes solo diners without stuffing us in a dim corner :)

In less than a minute, my server appeared and helped me through the large menu and specials. Since I was committed to eating strictly vegetarian that day, I began with this spicy Szechuan eggplant dish with sweet and hot peppers which comes with a side of white rice.  Usually, Minghin makes it with some ground pork.  However, they were more than happy to leave it out for me.


Spicy eggplant at Minghin in Chicago

Don’t forget the extra chili sauce!


It’s been a while since I’ve had a really good version of this eggplant dish and MingHin’s really satisfied my craving.  It was delicious.  The eggplant was cooked perfectly.  So often when restaurants attempt Szechuan eggplant, they overcook it, until it’s a pile of mush.  MingHin got it right!  It will become a staple for me here.


Eggplant in Szechuan sauce at Minghin

Nice and spicy Szechuan eggplant


Next, I decided to get my protein on by ordering a simple, pan-seared tofu in soy sauce.  My server explained that I would have to wait 10-15 minutes for this dish because they make it “to-order.”  This was a very good sign.  It informed me that I was not getting some stale tofu dish like so many busy Chinese restaurants prepare in advance.  When it hit the table, I was not disappointed.  The tofu was medium-firm and perfectly crispy on top.  The soy sauce was the perfect seasoning.  This tofu dish was a great follow-up to the super spicy eggplant, as it helped to cool down my palate. 


Pan-seared tofu at Minghin

Don’t let the simplicity of this dish fool you!


The space at MingHin is huge, bright and decorated very nicely.  A departure from the typical plain digs at many Chinatown joints, regardless of the city. 


Minghin Cuisine in Chicago

Minghin in Chinatown Square

Minghin restaurant in Chinatown

Eyeballing other patrons’ dishes while I await my lunch :)


MingHin was awarded the 2016 Michelin Bib Gourmand distinction which means that it is budget-friendly.  This fact should keep your wallet happy :)

Overall, this was a really yummy and comfortable solo dining experience.  MingHin took very good care of me and made me feel most welcome :)  I felt perfectly safe all by myself :)

MingHin Cuisine is located at 2168 S. Archer Avenue.  It is open 7 days a week from 8am – 2am. There is new location near Grant Park at 333 E. Benton Place.  Click here for more information.

Looking for other great spots to dine solo in Chicago’s Chinatown?  Check out Strings Ramen and Ahjoomah’s Apron Korean Restaurant.



Labeled: Culture & Community · Food & Libations · Travel